Don’t make the mistake of thinking every New Year’s resolution has to be about nipping bad habits in the bud by doing less of something negative. Sometimes it can be just as beneficial to do more of something positive, especially when it comes to having better sex or developing a better relationship with your body. The following are just a few sexy, intimate New Year’s resolution suggestions that every woman should consider in the year to come.
1. No More Faking It
Over half of all women admit to having faked an orgasm at least once over the course of their lives, so if this is something you’ve done, you’re definitely not alone. If it’s something you still do, consider making the new year to come the year you graduate from faking it to enjoying the real thing and nothing but.
Although your intentions are probably honorable as to why you’re faking it in the first place, keep in mind that you’re cheating yourself out of enjoying a real orgasm every time you do. Do something different this year so you can stop missing out, like getting vocal about how you really like to be touched or bringing a sex toy into the bedroom to enjoy as a couple.
2. Masturbate More Often
Did you know that 20 percent of woman say they’ve never masturbated before? An additional 40 percent say they haven’t within the past month for various reasons, up to and including being in a relationship. Where do you fall on the scale? Is masturbation something you see as a lackluster substitute for sex with a partner, or is it something you appreciate as its own unique activity?
Indulging in regular self-love sessions is one of the best things a women can do for her relationship with her own body, as well as for her sex life in general. Why not let the new year be the year you make more time for solo sessions? Not only will you feel amazing, but your sex life with your partner will likely improve as well. Put that on your New Year’s resolution list.
3. Try a Luxury Sex Toy
Speaking of taking solo pleasure more seriously this year, when was the last time you treated yourself to a really great sex toy – the kind of toy that can teach even a veteran a thing or two about how to enjoy an orgasm? If it’s been a while, consider this the sign you’ve been waiting for that you should totally splurge on a sweet new luxury toy for your collection this year.
FemmeFunn’s extensive catalog of designer sex toys is the perfect place to look for your next big toy obsession. Try a vibrator that brings a new function to the table to explore, or pick up a multi-purpose toy to try with your partner sometime soon. Sex toys are game changers when it comes to every kind of sexual pleasure, and it’s impossible to go wrong with any of the FemmeFunn masterpieces currently on the market.
4. Make Peace with Your Body
If you’re one of the millions of women who can’t seem to help obsessing over body parts they don’t like, know that you’re not alone. Not only do a lot of women have things they really don’t like about how their body looks or functions at times, but more men than you’d think have the same issue. You don’t necessarily have to fall head over heels in love with your body, but it’s definitely to your benefit to simply be more accepting of it as it is this year.
Obsessing over certain body parts only makes it harder to enjoy the moment and everything that’s going on when you’re having sex. If it helps, know that your partner is only thinking about how perfect you are. They’re completely lost in how good you look and feel, so give yourself permission to get lost in them as well.
5. Try Something New in Bed
It’s time to add adventurous to your New Year’s resolution list. No matter how many times you’ve been around the block, there’s always something new to discover, try, or get excited about when it comes to sex. Make this year the year you add to your list of favorite ways to get down and dirty (with or without a partner). Even if you’re not usually the most adventurous sort, a little change can do a lot of good when it comes to keeping sex stimulating and electric.
What you try is up to you. When was the last time you tried a new position or did something to change up a position you already love? How about the last time you got busy somewhere brand new or got a little frisky in public? Anything goes so long as both you and anyone else involved are equally excited about it. Go ahead and get creative!