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5 Adventurous Sex Ideas Best Approached with Caution

While movies, television, and popular culture can be great sources of inspiration when it comes to your bedroom repertoire, some adventurous sex ideas translate into real life a lot better than others. There’s no need to remove them from your sexual bucket list just yet though. Just think them through thoroughly before you try them for best results.

1.      Having a One-Nighter

When you’re happily single or in between relationships, casual sex can be a terrific way to scratch that all-too-familiar itch without taking on a commitment you’re not ready for. If you’re new to going casual though, don’t just impulsively have a one-night stand on a whim. As sexy as they sound, one-nighters aren’t for everyone.

Have a one-nighter because the idea of casual sex sounds truly exciting to you. Don’t do it just to prove a point to yourself or someone else. Be prepared to be responsible about your sexual health as well. Don’t simply hope the other person will have protection on hand. Always carry your own on you and insist on using it.

2.      Getting Naughty in Public

If you’ve ever considered getting down and dirty with your partner (or even yourself) in public, you’re far from alone. Most people have at least fantasized about it at one time or another, but there’s a fine art to actually getting away with it. People can and do wind up with lasting sex offender records for public sex, so you don’t want to get caught.

The good news is you don’t have to get naughty in a super-conspicuous location to experience the rush public sex can bring to the table. Pick a place and time that carries a low risk of being spotted, like your enclosed back yard or patio late at night or early in the morning when your neighbors are almost surely in bed.

3.      Sexting

If it feels like most of your friends are into sexting these days, it’s probably because they are. It’s estimated that around half of all people at least occasionally use their trusty smartphones to send naughty IMs, spicy text, and even racy nudes. Sexting can be super-hot, not to mention a great way to keep sparks flying between you and someone special when you’re apart, but it’s always a good idea to proceed with caution any time you’re sending intimate information or images.

While it might not be the most adventurous sex idea, always consider the possible consequences if you accidentally sent a naughty text to the wrong person or it otherwise fell into the wrong hands. One person’s “a little embarrassing” could easily be another’s “life-ruining”, so choose your sexting partners with care as well. Unless you’re completely unbothered by the idea of your sexts or nudes possibly being shared around, it might be best to limit sexting to a long-time partner or really close friend-with-benefits.

4.      Indulging in a Three-Way

Like public sex, threesomes are common fantasy fuel for millions of people. Just don’t let the movies fool you into thinking they’re best experienced spontaneously in the heat of the moment. A threesome can be a wonderful way to experiment and push your sexual boundaries, but you may be putting your relationship at risk if you don’t thoroughly plan and discuss things first.

Make sure this is something you both want to do, because it’s sure to spell trouble for your relationship otherwise. Go over things like what’s off-limits for each of you and how you each want the event to go down. Choose a partner together. Agree that either of you can simply shut down what’s going on at any time if you’re uncomfortable as well.

5.      Shower Sex

As adventurous sex ideas goes, shower sex is unlikely to carry harmful repercussions for your relationship or social life if things don’t go as planned, it can find someone getting hurt if you’re not careful enough. Keep in mind that most showers mean working within pretty close quarters, so it’s a good idea to be limber enough to make it work. Don’t let the hot, wet circumstances cause a bad fall or any unfortunate slipping either.

Add some traction to the floor of your tub with some well-placed appliques or a removable grip mat. Handrails in strategic places can be real godsends as well. (Just make sure they’re securely installed.) Last but not least, double check that any adult toys you’d like to add to the mix are fully waterproof and that all seals are intact before bringing them along for the ride.

Although the movies never make it seem that way, a little planning and preparedness are the keys to outside-the-box thinking that takes adventurous sex over the top. Put it into play for yourself the next time you’re thinking of mixing things up!

Is My Sex Life Really Healthy and Normal?

It’s something everyone wonders from time to time (and a lot more often than you think) – how their sex life stacks up against the average person’s. They wonder whether they’re too obsessed with sex, whether there’s enough of it in their relationship, and whether or not their preferences are normal. Like everyone, people know they want a sex life that’s healthy, happy, and in line with the norm. What they don’t know is what that would actually look like. Here are a few indicators to keep in mind.

Both Partners Are Comfortable and Satisfied

At the end of the day, there’s no magic number of times you and your partner have to be doing it for your sex life together to be considered healthy. There’s no benchmark you need to meet in order to be considered “adventurous enough” either. Just think about your answers to the following questions.

  • Do both of you feel your needs are being met?
  • Do both of you feel you try enough new things and enjoy the things you do try?
  • Does the quality and frequency of the sex in your relationship feel like enough to both of you?
  • Does each of you give and receive as needed and desired in the bedroom?

If you can answer an honest “yes” to each of those questions, then it’s safe to say that your sex life is normal, happy, and healthy. Everyone’s ideal is different. Some couples are happiest when they’re swinging from the chandeliers every night and going to sex clubs on the weekends, but that hardly means there’s something wrong with couples who aren’t into that. Ultimately, “healthy” is about what feels exciting, fulfilling, and satisfying to you.

Neither Partner Feels Pressured, Judged, or Pushed

There’s no room in a happy, healthy sexual relationship for abuse or pressure of any kind when it comes to sex. Never at any time does someone have the right to say or imply that their partner is inadequate in any way. No one should ever be told that they ought to be “different” in bed or find themselves compared to past partners.  Neither partner should ever feel required to participate in any sex act that makes them uncomfortable or uneasy either.

Healthy, happy couples see the bedroom they share as a safe space where they’re free to be themselves sexually. Yes, they want to enjoy themselves, but not at their partner’s expense. They understand that sex should be mutually fulfilling – a way for them to grow closer together in their respect, intimacy, and love for one another. Sex should never be used a way to control, abuse, shame, or punish one another.

Communication Is Frequent and Free-Flowing

Communication is an essential part of any relationship, both in and out of the bedroom. Without it, there’s no real way to know for sure whether the other person is happy with the way things are, so it needs to be happening comfortably and often. Healthy, happy sexual relationships involve people who can:

  • Speak freely and frankly about sex on every level.
  • Discuss fantasies without fear of judgment, up to and including the possibility of bringing them to life (or not).
  • Speak up regarding things they don’t like, trusting that they’ll be heard.
  • Bring up suggestions as to things they’d like to try or explore together.
  • Ask for what they truly need in bed, secure in the knowledge that their partner genuinely wants to know.

If you and your partner can do all of the above, it’s pretty safe to say that the two of you have a healthy, happy sex life.

Both Partners Are Curious and Willing to Explore

While it’s fine to be happy with your sex life and to feel all of your needs are being met, it’s important not to get stuck in a rut. A willingness to try new things and explore from time to time is a sign that not only is your sex life stable, but thriving and growing as well. Experimentation keeps things from getting stale, keeps the two of you connected, and ensures the energy between you remains electric.

Again, there’s no right or wrong way to experiment in the bedroom. You ultimately set the limits and decide what goes, so explore within the boundaries the two of you are comfortable with. Try some new positions on for size, or switch things up when it comes to location. Start a toy chest and fill it with options that you shop for together. Take turns suggesting new sensations or techniques you’d like to explore together as well.

At the end of the day, there’s no right or wrong way to run your sex life, and no two couples are ever going to be alike. If you’re both happy and satisfied, you can rest easy in the knowledge that your sex life is healthy.

One-Night Stands: When to Have One and How to Make It Amazing

While the right committed relationship can be absolute bliss, you don’t have to be in one to enjoy some seriously amazing sex when you’re craving the touch of another person. One-night stands can make awesome additions to any single, sex-positive person’s intimate life, but there’s definitely a right way and a wrong way to approach them. Here’s what you need to know to do them right.

Is a One-Nighter Actually Right for You?

Yes, one-night stands are a lot more socially acceptable for both men and women than they used to be. People are open about having them and loving them. A lot of your friends probably have epic stories about their own one-time casual flings, as well… but that doesn’t mean one-night stands are right for everyone.

Some people are wired to love casual sex with people they’re unlikely to ever see again, but others aren’t, and that’s OK too. Before you go rushing to hook up with the first hot number that catches your eye the next time you’re out on the town, just make sure you’re doing it because you actually want to. Otherwise, you’ll have a lot more fun treating yourself to a new vibrator and putting it through its paces.

Picking the Right Partner

Knowing you’re ready to spend a hot night knocking boots with the right person is one thing, but picking the right person to hook up with is another. Don’t let anyone tell you it doesn’t matter when all you want is a one-nighter, because it totally does. Here’s how to choose wisely.

Don’t Pick a Friend

Unless you’re looking for more of an ongoing friends-with-benefits type of deal, it’s usually best not to pick someone you actually know. The whole point of a one-night stand is to come together with someone else without the need to worry about what comes next. Jumping into bed with a friend or a coworker totally defeats the purpose.

Do Pick Someone You Like

Yes, the person should be smoking hot, but that’s not all that matters, even if you’re only coming together for the night. It should also be someone you feel natural and easy around. Conversation should flow more or less effortlessly, and you should enjoy the person’s company. You want the whole night to be a good time, not just the sex.

Being Properly Prepared

A lot of one-night stands do happen spontaneously, but that doesn’t mean there aren’t benefits to setting the stage properly beforehand. Here are a few tips to keep in mind to prep like a pro.

Prioritize Safety

The minute you decide you’re open to a one-night stand as a possibility, you should get serious about safety just in case it does happen completely spontaneously. Don’t simply assume the other person will have things covered in the protection department. Carry plenty of protection on you at all times so you’re always ready for anything, including repeat performances. And this should go without saying, but don’t even bother with anyone who isn’t down with protection.

Give Yourself Permission to Experiment

A connection that’s only good for one night comes attached to a lot of possibilities. Since you’re not looking to cultivate an ongoing relationship, even on a casual level, you don’t have to worry about what happens next. That means you’re free to experiment to your heart’s content. Want to explore something new in the bedroom? In the mood for something kinky, or ready break out every toy in your pleasure chest? Always wanted to know what it would be like to adopt a persona completely unlike the real you? A one-nighter is the perfect opportunity. Go for it!

Have a Plan

It’s generally a good idea to decide where you’d like the action to go down once you find someone you’d like to spend some time with. In other words, your place or theirs? Unless there’s a specific reason why your place is off the table, bringing the person home with you is generally the best option. You know what to expect there, and you don’t have to worry about finding your way home from a stranger’s apartment. If you’re not into bringing strangers home though, going to their place is fine too. Just know which way you’d like things to go first.

Code of conduct is important when it comes to one-night stands as well. No, you’re not going to see this person again (probably), but that doesn’t make it OK to treat them badly or rudely. Be respectful and courteous, just as you would be in any other social interaction. Remember, this is a person, so the golden rule applies. Keep things casual, but treat them the way you’d want to be treated. It’s the best way to make sure you both have a night to remember.

How to Get in Touch with Your Inner Sex Kitten

Knowing you’d like to be more confident, both in and out of the bedroom, is easy. It’s getting in touch with that confidence and making it feel natural that’s really challenging. That said, have you always longed to be a more effortlessly sexual person? Would you like to be the sort of woman who’s unabashedly comfortable in her own skin? It’s simpler than you probably think.

That brand of raw sexuality that seems to flow so naturally for some people has a lot less to do with actual sex than you think. Sure, being comfortable with the idea of wearing a strap-on or dominating a partner like a boss can be sexy in its own way. However, it has a lot more to do with self-love and self-acceptance. Thankfully, these are qualities you can learn to cultivate with time and patience.

It Has to Be About You

Wanting to grow into a more primal version of yourself is admirable, but it’s important to do it for the right reasons. That said, what are your reasons for wanting to be more outwardly sexual? Is this something a partner pressured you into feeling you need to do in order to be more acceptable to them, or is it something you want to do for yourself?

Ultimately, channeling your inner sex kitten is about learning to love and appreciate yourself. Sexy, confident women don’t worry about whether they’re enough for their partners. They simply focus on being the best possible versions of themselves, resting easy in the knowledge that the right partner will appreciate that authenticity.

Address Any Underlying Issues

A person’s sexuality and sex drive can be pretty complex, so you’ll definitely want to ask yourself why you’re having trouble being as sexual as you want to be. Is it simply a confidence issue, or are there underlying medical or physical issues at work as well? If you struggle with a lack of desire or low sex drive, and you’re not sure why, consider asking a doctor about underlying issues that might be at play. You might be surprised how much it helps.

Taking good care of yourself physically is also key when it comes to maintaining a happy, healthy sex life. Nourish yourself with wholesome foods, move around as much as possible, keep stress to a minimum, and practice healthy self-care. When you’re good to the body you’re in, it’s easier to build a relationship with it and ultimately learn to love it more.

Communicate with Your Partner

If you’re in a relationship or otherwise have a regular sex partner, bringing them on board with what you’re trying to do will be really helpful. Let them know you’re working on becoming more confident and ask them to support you in your efforts however they can. If there’s something specific you need from them, let them know what that is. If your partner truly cares about you as they should, they’ll be happy to help any way they can.

You’ll also want to spend as much quality time as possible with your partner. Intimacy and chemistry in the bedroom go hand in hand with connection everywhere else. Foster a deeper connection as far as your relationship goes in general, and you might be surprised how quickly your inner sex kitten comes out.

Learn What You Like

Far too many women have little to no idea what they really enjoy sexually, because they wrongly think sex has to involve someone else in order to be worthwhile. Connecting with a partner in the bedroom is great, but sexually confident women know how to appreciate pleasure for its own sake all on their own as well. If you’re not in the habit of masturbating on your own, it’s officially time to start.

Pick a private, quiet place where you won’t be interrupted and simply enjoy the process of exploring your body. Experiment with different types of touch and stimulation. Invest in a couple good quality sex toys that appeal to you, and practice bringing yourself to orgasm in different ways. Exploring different types of porn or erotica can be a wonderful way to discover new turn-ons (and turn-offs) as well. The more you know about yourself sexually, the easier it will be to let your inner sex kitten off the leash more often.

Define Sexy for Yourself

Last but definitely not least, decide what sexy looks like and feels like to you, and cultivate that aesthetic. Maybe the epitome of feminine sex appeal to you really is do-me pumps, tight dresses, and lots of red lipstick. If that’s the case, that’s great, but sexy can just as easily look like jeans, a white t-shirt, and a freshly scrubbed face.

At the end of the day, you need to be able to look in the mirror and see someone you think is sexy looking back at you. Once you can do that, the rest is easy. Are you ready to get started?

5 Sex- Related Things Every Woman Should Add to Her New Year’s Resolution List

Don’t make the mistake of thinking every New Year’s resolution has to be about nipping bad habits in the bud by doing less of something negative. Sometimes it can be just as beneficial to do more of something positive, especially when it comes to having better sex or developing a better relationship with your body. The following are just a few sexy, intimate New Year’s resolution suggestions that every woman should consider in the year to come.

1.      No More Faking It

Over half of all women admit to having faked an orgasm at least once over the course of their lives, so if this is something you’ve done, you’re definitely not alone. If it’s something you still do, consider making the new year to come the year you graduate from faking it to enjoying the real thing and nothing but.

Although your intentions are probably honorable as to why you’re faking it in the first place, keep in mind that you’re cheating yourself out of enjoying a real orgasm every time you do. Do something different this year so you can stop missing out, like getting vocal about how you really like to be touched or bringing a sex toy into the bedroom to enjoy as a couple.

2.      Masturbate More Often

Did you know that 20 percent of woman say they’ve never masturbated before? An additional 40 percent say they haven’t within the past month for various reasons, up to and including being in a relationship. Where do you fall on the scale? Is masturbation something you see as a lackluster substitute for sex with a partner, or is it something you appreciate as its own unique activity?

Indulging in regular self-love sessions is one of the best things a women can do for her relationship with her own body, as well as for her sex life in general. Why not let the new year be the year you make more time for solo sessions? Not only will you feel amazing, but your sex life with your partner will likely improve as well. Put that on your New Year’s resolution list.

3.      Try a Luxury Sex Toy

Speaking of taking solo pleasure more seriously this year, when was the last time you treated yourself to a really great sex toy – the kind of toy that can teach even a veteran a thing or two about how to enjoy an orgasm? If it’s been a while, consider this the sign you’ve been waiting for that you should totally splurge on a sweet new luxury toy for your collection this year.

FemmeFunn’s extensive catalog of designer sex toys is the perfect place to look for your next big toy obsession. Try a vibrator that brings a new function to the table to explore, or pick up a multi-purpose toy to try with your partner sometime soon. Sex toys are game changers when it comes to every kind of sexual pleasure, and it’s impossible to go wrong with any of the FemmeFunn masterpieces currently on the market.

4.      Make Peace with Your Body

If you’re one of the millions of women who can’t seem to help obsessing over body parts they don’t like, know that you’re not alone. Not only do a lot of women have things they really don’t like about how their body looks or functions at times, but more men than you’d think have the same issue. You don’t necessarily have to fall head over heels in love with your body, but it’s definitely to your benefit to simply be more accepting of it as it is this year.

Obsessing over certain body parts only makes it harder to enjoy the moment and everything that’s going on when you’re having sex. If it helps, know that your partner is only thinking about how perfect you are. They’re completely lost in how good you look and feel, so give yourself permission to get lost in them as well.

5.      Try Something New in Bed

It’s time to add adventurous to your New Year’s resolution list. No matter how many times you’ve been around the block, there’s always something new to discover, try, or get excited about when it comes to sex. Make this year the year you add to your list of favorite ways to get down and dirty (with or without a partner). Even if you’re not usually the most adventurous sort, a little change can do a lot of good when it comes to keeping sex stimulating and electric.

What you try is up to you. When was the last time you tried a new position or did something to change up a position you already love? How about the last time you got busy somewhere brand new or got a little frisky in public? Anything goes so long as both you and anyone else involved are equally excited about it. Go ahead and get creative!

Women’s Sexual Health Essentials for a Happy, Satisfying Sex Life

Sex is so much more than just a fun way to spend a little free time. Numerous studies have proven that it’s also great for your health, not to mention a beneficial part of any well-rounded lifestyle. It’s a great way to get closer and more intimate with a partner (or with yourself) as well. However, there’s a fine art to getting things right when it comes to sex, especially if you’re a woman. Here’s a closer look at a few things every woman needs when it comes to making the absolute most of her life as a sexual being.

Healthy Body Image

Body image plays a huge role in any person’s ability to thoroughly enjoy sex. However, social pressures and persistent beauty standards that are far from realistic can make establishing and maintaining a healthy body image especially tough for women. Factors that can contribute either positively or negatively to a woman’s body image include weight, age, perceived sexual attractiveness, and so forth.

For some women, cultivating a positive body image means staying fit and keeping up with a beauty routine that meets their needs. However, others find it much more empowering to simply accept themselves as they are. It’s up to every woman to decide what loving herself looks like to her. Just keep in mind that a partner isn’t going to be anywhere near as focused on what you look like in bed as you think they will. Most people’s personal tastes tend not to conform to the going social standard anyway.

Knowing Your Likes and Dislikes

Reaching a place where you’re comfortable in your own skin is only part of the equation when it comes to enjoying yourself to the fullest in bed. You also need to have a solid, honest understanding of what you do and don’t like in bed, which is a challenge for a lot of women. Start by figuring out what turns you on both mentally and emotionally, as well as what turns you off. Exploring porn or erotica can be very helpful when it comes to learning about the possibilities and seeing which ones do and don’t intrigue you.

A really amazing vibrator and plenty of solo intimate time is perhaps the best way to discover all the ways your body likes to be touched. You don’t have to worry about meeting another person’s expectations or be concerned about how long it does or doesn’t take you to reach orgasm when you’re on your own. You’re free to simply explore to your heart’s content and focus on pleasing yourself without inhibition or fear of judgment. You can then communicate what you learn to your partner to make your sex life together even more fulfilling.

Emotional Security and Trust

Even when she’s into a more casual, carefree approach to sex, a woman really needs to feel safe and secure on every level when she’s intimate with someone else. Emotional security and trust are especially important if you’re married or committed to someone for the long term. That said, it’s important to promptly address any issues that might be stopping you from feeling as connected as you should when it comes to your partner.

Don’t be afraid to bring up problems or concerns that may be causing emotional distance on either person’s end. It’s also important to continually address concerns about STD status, birth control, and other sexual health topics, especially if you’re in an open relationship, are in a “friends with benefits” type situation or prefer a casual approach to your sex life. Never let anyone make you feel like you’re out of line for bringing such topics up for discussion.

Realistic Expectations

Popular culture has sold men and women alike on the idea that every woman should be able to reach orgasm quickly, easily, and under every possible circumstance. If you’re still buying into that concept yourself, it’s officially time to stop. In reality, very few women can reach orgasm at the drop of a hat or within seconds. For most, becoming properly and adequately aroused takes time and patience, especially as people grow older.

Take advantage of some of the absolutely amazing products on the market that are designed to make sex better and more comfortable. Lubricants are a great place to start, and can be a game changer whether you need the help in that department or not. You may also want to consider introducing toys and other fun gear options into partnered play. You might be surprised at how big a difference the right toy can make for both of you.

At the end of the day, sexual fulfillment is easier to achieve than you might think. It’s largely about reaching a place where you’re completely comfortable with yourself, your body, and any partners you might decide to bring into the mix.

Make Your Sex Life Stress-Free

When it comes to natural stress relievers, it really doesn’t get much better than sex. Sex is more than just something that feels good and keeps you feeling connected to your partner. It’s also incredibly good for you, both physically and mentally. Plus, orgasms are perpetually available and free, so you can treat yourself to as many as you can handle.

However, it’s important to understand that sex (either partnered or solo) should always be a way to relieve the effects of stress. If anything about your sex life is making sex a source of stress in and of itself, it’s time to make some changes. Here’s a closer look at where and how to start.

Occasional Slumps Are Normal 

Literally everyone has the occasional stretch of a few days, weeks, or even months when life is just extra stressful for one reason or another. Maybe your boss has been extra demanding at the office lately or your family’s been going through a rough patch. Whatever the case may be it’s understandable that you might not be in the mood for sex as often (or at all) for a while.

Know that it’s perfectly normal not to be super horny and perpetually down to get dirty when you haven’t been feeling well or life’s been demanding a lot from you. Definitely communicate with your partner if you have one, but beyond that, don’t force anything. The chances are excellent that you’ll be feeling like your old sexy self again in no time once things calm down.

If you are concerned about a prolonged or unexplained lack of sex drive though, it never hurts to speak to your doctor or therapist. They’ll be able to determine whether or not there could be a physical cause that ought to be addressed.

Keep Distractions to a Minimum

Technology’s great and there are lots of reasons to love it. However, there’s a reason you’re always hearing about how disruptive it can be. Cell phones, laptops, smart TVs, and the constant connectivity that comes with them can make it hard to appreciate good, old-fashioned, human-to-human connection the way we used to. If you or your partner are in the habit of bringing your tech to bed with you, it may be affecting your sex life as well.

The fewer distractions there are in your bedroom, the better. Try making it a point to finish your emailing, your social media scrolling, and all the catching up you have to do on your Hulu queue before getting up to go to bed. Plug your phones in for the night and leave them in another room to avoid the temptation to sit in bed fiddling with them until you fall asleep. Make your bedroom synonymous with total relaxation. You’re much more likely to spend your time talking, cuddling, trading massages or chasing your next orgasm – activities that bring you closer together and nurture intimacy.

Add Toys to the Mix

Don’t get us wrong. There’s nothing wrong with au natural sex or self-love done the old-fashioned way, but there’s also something to be said for what sex toys bring to the table. Not only are they just plain fun to play with, but they can help relieve sex-related stress in the following ways as well:

  • Sometimes you’re just plain physically exhausted at the end of the day, but could still really go for a quick orgasm or two. Breaking open the toy chest and reaching for your favorite go-to items is a great way to do that on nights you’re just not up for a lot of thrusting or riding.
  • Using toys together can help take some of the pressure to perform off of both partners. They also make it easier to put certain bedroom goals back on your bucket list, like orgasming simultaneously or having multiple orgasms.
  • Sex toys can be a great solution for nights when you wish you were more in the mood, but are having trouble getting there as well. Luxury sex toys (like FemmeFunn’s unique vibrators) can be especially great at waking up those nerve endings and getting them ready to rock.

Sex toys are also a great way to add variety to the way you make love with your partner or explore your body when you’re alone. There are options designed specifically for men, next-level vibrators that can help women explore a full range of sensations, and even toys that can be used together as a couple. Go ahead and treat yourself to an entire collection of toys if you like. The sky’s the limit.

At the end of the day, life’s just too short and orgasms are too good to let stress get in the way. Patience, communication, and dedication are the best ways to move past ruts and get your groove back once and for all.

Why Everyone (Including Women) Should Be Masturbating

Thankfully masturbation is no longer something hush-hush that nobody talks about or willingly admits to doing, but it still tends to get a bad rap. Despite what some people still believe, masturbation isn’t just a lackluster substitute for people who “can’t” get someone else to have sex with them. It’s actually seriously beneficial for absolutely everyone, including women. Let’s take a closer look at why everyone should be getting down and dirty with their naughty bits on a regular basis.

Masturbation Is Empowering

It goes without saying that having sex with someone else is awesome. Casual sex is awesome. Committed sex with someone you love and trust is awesome. However, you don’t need someone else’s permission or involvement to enjoy everything sexual stimulation brings to the table. Once you really realize that and embrace it, it’s hard not to feel empowered by the act of taking responsibility for your own pleasure.

Masturbating, either au naturel or with the help of an amazing sex toy like the ones you’ll find at FemmeFunn, is the best way to really get to know both your body and mind on a sexual level. You have the freedom to experiment and explore to your heart’s content without fear of pressure or judgment from anyone else. You can take all the time you like and have as many orgasms as you like. Best of all, you don’t ever have to rely on someone else’s ability to please your or give you an orgasm when you want one.

Masturbation Actually Improves Your Sex Life

Masturbation’s reputation as something people settle for when and if they don’t have a partner is really undeserved. Just about everyone masturbates, including people who are in relationships and people who could easily find someone else to get down and dirty with if they wanted to. In fact, masturbation has lots of benefits when it comes to your partnered sex life in particular.

  • Masturbating teaches you what you like and how you like to be touched – information that really comes in handy when you’re in bed with a partner.
  • Masturbation is a great way to make up the difference if one partner has a much higher sex drive than the other.
  • Masturbating together or in each other’s presence can be a seriously sexy (not to mention instructional) way to be intimate with one another.
  • Masturbating regularly is a great way to keep your sex drive and sexual response system in great shape, whether or not you’re currently interested in being intimate with anyone else.

In short, masturbation is a great way to relieve tension, explore, or experiment sexually, both together and separately. Adding the right toys to the mix can even help you discover entirely new erogenous zones, sensations, and techniques you were entirely unaware of before.

Masturbation Makes You Feel Good

Most of the feel-good benefits you already associate with partnered sex actually apply to masturbation too. Orgasms are a powerful way to enhance your mood and relieve stress thanks to the rush of endorphins and feel-good hormones that go with them (like dopamine and oxytocin). That makes enjoying a quick climax whenever you feel the urge one of the best ways to decompress or blow off some steam if life just hasn’t really been going your way.

And have you ever noticed how a really great roll in the hay with your partner right before bed helps you sleep better? Masturbating can be just as effective a sleep aid, so definitely don’t knock it until you try it. Some people have even noticed that after having an orgasm, their sinuses and allergies feel a lot better as well. In other words, anything sex can cure can probably be helped by masturbation as well, so don’t be afraid to go wild.

Masturbation Has Zero Downside

None of the smack talk you’ve likely heard about masturbation all your life is to be believed. So long as you’re doing it in private (or in the presence of another person who’s given their consent), there’s absolutely nothing wrong with masturbating as much as you like. In fact, the more regularly you masturbate, the more of the awesome benefits you’ll reap, both personally and within the context of your romantic or sexual relationships. Masturbation is good for you, inside and out. It’s good for your mind, your spirit, and your body. Best of all, it’s a great way to empower yourself, to get to know yourself better, and more.

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5 Great Reasons Women Should Watch Porn Too

We’re no longer living in the dark ages when it comes to the topic of female sexuality. These days, it’s not just understood that women have libidos, enjoy sex, and masturbate regularly. Society has also finally gotten used to the fact that a lot of us do so to the same degree men do. There’s just one topic you don’t hear discussed anywhere near as often as it should be as it relates to women – porn.

The fact of the matter is porn isn’t just for men anymore. Not only do plenty of women openly enjoy watching it, but porn distributors are catching on and creating more content that caters to women’s tastes and preferences. The following are just a few great reasons why you might want to try watching porn too.

  1. It’s a great libido booster.

Sex is always better when you’re really turned on. Every nerve ending is wide awake, and every single touch feels just like ecstasy. The more turned on you are, the easier it will be to reach orgasm. Any orgasms you do have will be more intense as well. However, sometimes stress, health issues, or just plain old distraction can make it harder than if has to be to become aroused on quite that level.

Porn is a fun and easy way to get your head in the game when nothing else really seems to be doing the trick. If you’re masturbating, porn can be a great way to intensify the experience for yourself. Watching porn with a partner can also be a sexy, effective lead-in to lovemaking as well, especially if you’re having trouble getting in the mood.

  1. You’ll get to know yourself better.

Porn plays a key role in helping millions of men get to know themselves sexually, and it can definitely do the same for women. Porn can be really educational when it comes to learning what your body is truly capable of sexually. It’s not uncommon for women to discover little-known erogenous zones or new types of stimulation they’d like to experiment with thanks to porn.

Porn and erotica are amazing ways to really get in touch with what turns you on as well. It’s terrific fuel for your fantasy life, as well as great for getting new ideas to experiment with between the sheets when you’re with your partner. Porn may even give you some new things to add to your ongoing sexual bucket list as well.

  1. It’s easier to keep your engine revving.

It’s perfectly normal for a person’s sex drive to ebb and flow for any number of reasons. However, it’s always a good idea to do what you can to keep yours healthy, even when you don’t have a partner (or want one). Going too long without any form of sexual stimulation, physical or otherwise, can make it hard to get back into the swing of things later on. It’s not unheard of for people to really lose touch with their basic sexual needs as well.

Watching porn even occasionally is a great way to keep your libido healthy and your juices flowing. Add a really amazing sex toy (or a collection of them) to the mix, and it gets pretty easy to keep your sexual muscles flexed. Think of it as a workout for your libido – a way to keep it healthy and in tip top condition.

  1. You’ll gain valuable insight into the sexuality of others.

Porn isn’t just a great way to get to know your own body and mind on a sexual level. It can teach you a lot about other people’s sexuality as well, including those of the opposite sex. In addition to discovering new things that turn you on, you’re likely to discover a new trick or two that’s bound to curl your partner’s toes as well.

Watching porn doesn’t necessarily have to be a solo endeavor either. Letting your partner be a part of your explorations can be a great way to open a dialogue about topics like sexual fantasies, individual sexual needs, sexual adventurousness, and so forth. You can either watch together or take turns sending each other particularly interesting clips to discuss as a couple later.

  1. It’s a fun way to feel sexier.

What woman doesn’t love feeling like an absolute sex goddess, both in the bedroom and outside of it? Learning more about sex and spending some of your free time consuming content that really turns you on are wonderful ways to feel sexier, more desirable, and more sexually energetic.

Watching porn can be an incredible confidence booster for an independent woman. It can help her to really see herself as the sensual creature she knows herself to be a lot more often. Why not explore the possibilities for yourself today? You’re sure to wind up glad that you did.

Seduction 101: Make Your Lover Hunger Only for You

Seduction is about so much more than simply enticing someone into wanting to have sex with you. Seduction at its finest is about making someone crave you on a level that’s much more than physical. It’s about making sure that person can’t get you out of their head, both when they’re with you and long after they’ve gone home to be alone with their thoughts again.

Don’t worry. You don’t have to be a born seductress to become an absolute master at it. Seduction is an art, and like every art, it can be learned and perfected with enough dedication. Here’s how to get started in the right direction.

Be Your Most Confident Self

Confidence is a critical part of being your sexiest, most seductive self. At the end of the day, it doesn’t matter how gorgeous you are or whether you know all the right things to say to get your lover’s engine running. If you’re not also confident in your delivery, you’ll seem like you’re out of your element or otherwise don’t really know what you’re doing.

Don’t make the mistake of thinking you have to fit some overly specific stereotype in order to be seductive. You’ll find it easier to be confident if you focus on being the sexiest possible version of yourself. Wear clothing and makeup that makes you feel sexy and attractive, as opposed to what you think the other person wants to see you in. Be flirtatious, but be yourself. You don’t have to be somebody else to turn your lover on.

Make Them Feel Good

Think back to the last time someone successfully seduced you. You may not remember what their most attractive feature was or exactly what their best move was in bed. You almost certainly remember the way they made you feel though – attractive, happy, and just plain good. That’s the key to catching and keeping just about anyone’s interest.

Compliments are a relatively easy way to get started, as everyone likes to hear nice things about themselves. Just take care not to lay it on too thick. Make sure you’re sincere as well. People are very intuitive, and most can see right through compliment that isn’t truly meant. Smiling, laughing, and just basically being a fun person to be around are still more ways to make sure your person of choice always has a wonderful feeling when they’re around you.

Talk with Your Body

The X-factor that separates a true mistress of seduction from everyone else is her mastery of body language. That said, don’t be afraid to let your body tell your lover exactly what’s on your mind, subtly at first and more overtly later. Subtle but seductive body language is a great way to add emphasis and appeal to any words you might be saying as well.

Whenever you’re near your lover, make sure you’re always facing them, especially if you’re engaged in a conversation. Sit close to them, but not too close. Focus on them when they talk and lean into them subtly when you interact with one another. Touch them gently and casually when it makes sense to do so. Last but definitely not least, make plenty of eye contact. You can convey an amazing amount of passion just by making the right amount of eye contact at the right times.

Let Them Work for It

Have you ever noticed that a reward is that much sweeter when you actually have to work for it a little? Skillful seductresses make it a point to subtly but unmistakably convey their interest in someone, but then leave some of the work up to the other person. That means playing a little hard to get.

Don’t tell the other person every little detail about you. Tell them just enough to keep them intrigued, but always leave a little something to their imagination so that they always have something left to wonder about when you’re not around. Send them texts that are flirtatious without spelling everything out for them. Definitely give them a chance to chase you a little.

Be Willing to Practice

The art of seduction comes more easily to some than others, so don’t worry if you need to work at it a little before you get things exactly right. It takes time, patience, and practice to cultivate a technique that’s unique to you.

Focus on wearing, doing, and saying things that make you feel sexy without also making you feel like you’re channeling someone else. Spend some of your free time thinking sexy thoughts. Fantasize to your heart’s content and get in touch with your sexual side by indulging it with sex toys and sensual experiences. It won’t be long before oozing sex appeal feels just like second nature to you.

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