Funn Fact: Did you know that caressing the nipples affects the same region of the brain as stimulating the vagina and clitoris? Breasts are a massive erogenous zone, and paying attention to them can increase vaginal lubrication, relax the pelvic floor, and even lead to a full-blown breast orgasm. And in case you were wondering, these techniques feel sensational for people of all genders and breast sizes.
If you're ready to show your chest some extra love, this is your complete guide to mastering the art of breast play.
Why breast play is a game-changer for your sex life
Breast and nipple play, much like clitoral stimulation, can trigger powerful orgasms on their own. But they can also boost the likelihood and intensity of other orgasms. Stimulating two erogenous zones at once — like the breasts and clitoris — can induce a sensational blended orgasm by engaging more nerves and making climaxes easier and stronger. It’s an incredible way to add a new layer of sensation to foreplay, intercourse, and solo sessions.
How to get started with breast play: 5 beginner tips
Exploring what feels good is a process. Start with these simple but effective techniques.
1. Don't forget the rest of the chest
While the nipples often get the most attention, the entire chest area is ripe for exploration. Explore the soft crease on the underside of the breast. Try kissing the sides of the rib cage, the collarbone, or even the top of the armpit. These areas can be surprisingly sensitive.
2. Tease them by playing hard-to-get
Kissing, stroking, and licking your partner's breast while purposefully avoiding the areola and nipple can be a huge turn-on. This teasing builds anticipation and makes the moment they finally touch the nipple that much more intense.
3. Add a drop of lube
Lube isn’t just for your genitals. A drop of lube used before an intense nipple-rubbing session or breast massage provides the perfect amount of glide and heightens every sensation.
4. Use your breath for temperature play
Get the nipple wet with saliva by kissing and sucking, then blow softly on it to trigger a wave of tingles. The contrast between warm breath and cool air can be electric. You can also experiment with an ice cube for an even more intense sensation.
5. Try some gentle teeth (but always ask first)
For some people, gentle nipple biting can be incredibly arousing. The key is to always ask your partner first and start slowly. Gently graze the nipple with your teeth and ask them how the pressure feels, gradually increasing it only if they want more.
Level up your breast play: 5 advanced ideas
Ready to get more adventurous? These ideas will take your breast play to the next level.
1. Introduce a vibrator
Vibrating sex toys aren't just for below-the-belt play. A buzz on the nipples can be a terrific warm-up for sex or the main event itself. A versatile toy like the Volea has two arms that are perfect for "stroking" either side of the nipple, while a powerful wand like the Ultra Wand can deliver deep, rumbling vibrations over the entire breast.
2. Experiment with nipple clamps
Nipple clamps may look intimidating, but they are simply tools used to heighten nipple sensitivity. They don't have to be painful. Choose an adjustable pair to control the pressure. A good rule is to keep them on for no more than 10 minutes at a time, followed by a 5-minute break.
3. Get inspiration from the clit
How a person likes their clitoris stimulated can be a great clue for how they like their nipples played with. If they have a super-sensitive clit that prefers indirect touch, try gentle, broad strokes around the areola. If they need the intense power of an Ultra Wand to get off, then more direct nibbling and sucking on the nipple may be on the menu.
4. Spice things up with lingerie or a harness
The right outfit can be a form of breast play in itself. The feeling of silk or satin against your skin can be a tantalizing sensation. Lingerie with strategic cutouts or open cups can frame your breasts beautifully and make you feel incredibly confident and sexy. A chest harness can also be a powerful way to enhance what you have and feel amazing in your skin.
5. Try sensory play with a blindfold
Sensory play is the technique of reducing one sense to intensify the others. When you take away sight with a blindfold, your sense of touch becomes much more acute, making every kiss, lick, and vibration feel even more powerful.
Breast play is one of the most versatile and enjoyable ways to explore pleasure, for every gender and body type. Like any sexual act, the key is communication and a willingness to experiment. So what are you waiting for? Get your breast party started.