If there was ever an OG sex toy, the rabbit vibrator would be it. Since its iconic appearance on Sex and the City in 1998, the rabbit has become a nightstand mainstay for a reason. But despite its popularity, it’s not always obvious how to unlock its full potential.
Fortunately, that’s our area of expertise. This is your complete guide on how to use a rabbit vibrator to get those mind-blowing, blended orgasms you've heard so much about.
What is a rabbit vibrator?
A rabbit vibrator, sometimes called a dual-stimulator, is the multitasking queen of the toy box. It combines internal and external pleasure in one sleek package. It has two main parts:
- The shaft: A larger, insertable part designed to stimulate the G-spot.
- The ears: A smaller, external arm (often with "bunny ears") that vibrates directly against the clitoris.
The goal? To stimulate both of these powerful erogenous zones at the exact same time. This leads to an intense, full-body sensation often called a "blended orgasm."
How to use a rabbit vibrator: a 7-step guide
Never used one before? No problem. Follow these simple steps to master the art of the rabbit.
Step 1: Power up
If your rabbit is battery-powered, make sure those AAAs are fresh. If it's rechargeable, ensure you've charged it fully. There is nothing — and we mean nothing — more heartbreaking than a toy dying mid-orgasm.
Step 2: Get familiar with the controls
It can be tempting to jump right in, but learning how to use a rabbit vibrator starts with knowing your buttons. Many models have independent controls for the internal shaft and the external clitoral stimulator. Some also have rotating or thrusting motions. Click through the settings beforehand so you aren't fumbling in the dark later.
Step 3: Lube, lube, lube
Lube makes everything better. Apply a generous amount to both the vibe's shaft and clitoral stimulator, as well as to your body. Make sure the lube you use is compatible with your toy’s material (water-based is always the safest bet for silicone toys).
Step 4: Find your position
Insert the vibrator shaft into your vagina so that the external stimulator is resting comfortably against your clitoris. There's no single "right" way to do this. Some people prefer lying on their back with pillows under their hips, while others like to lie on their stomach and grind against the bunny ears. Experiment to find your angle.
Step 5: Activate the vibrations
Once you’re in position and comfortable, turn it on. We recommend starting with the lowest setting on both the internal and external motors. This allows you to gradually build arousal for a stronger climax rather than overstimulating yourself right out of the gate.
Step 6: Experiment with movement
Once you're going, the rest is up to you. You can thrust the vibrator in and out, grind your hips back and forth, or just hold it still and let the pulsations do the work. Keep in mind that with long, shallow thrusts, the clitoral stimulator might lose contact with your "button." For continuous blended pleasure, try shorter, deeper strokes or a grinding motion.
Step 7: Clean up
After the afterglow fades, make sure to clean your toy thoroughly. Use a dedicated sex toy cleaner or gentle soap and warm water. Let it air dry completely before storing it in its bag.
Pro tips for getting the most out of your rabbit
Once you've mastered the basics, you can get even more creative.
- Use it with a partner: A rabbit vibrator is a fantastic addition to partnered sex. You can hold it in place during intercourse (if size permits), or your partner can use it on you during foreplay to get you warmed up.
- Try it anally: Did you know? The majority of rabbit vibrators are anal-safe because the external arm acts as a flared base, preventing it from going in too far. If you're curious, add plenty of lube and give it a try.
Our favorite rabbit vibrators
Ready to find your perfect match? Whether you want beginner vibes or advanced heavy-hitters, here are a few styles to look for in our collection:
The Booster Rabbit
Look for rabbits like the Booster Rabbit that combine vibration with rotation. The internal shaft swirls around to massage the G-spot while the ears buzz the clit. It's a texture change that can push you over the edge.
The Essenza
If you need that "filling" sensation, check out toys like the Essenza. In addition to vibration, these rabbits physically thrust in and out, mimicking the motion of sex for a deep, satisfying blended orgasm.
The Pirouette
For a high-tech option, the Pirouette offers a curved tip specifically designed to hunt down the G-spot, plus remote control capabilities for easy solo or partner play.
Now that you know how to use a rabbit vibrator like a pro, the possibilities for your pleasure are virtually endless. Happy playing!
FAQ: Rabbit vibrator basics
Why is it called a rabbit vibrator? +
The name comes from the original design released in the 1980s, which featured two bunny ears on the external clitoral stimulator. The name stuck, and now it refers to almost any dual-action toy with that specific shape.
Can beginners use rabbit vibrators? +
Absolutely! While they look intense, they are actually very user-friendly. Just look for a smaller, silicone model from our beginner collection and start on the lowest settings.
What is a blended orgasm? +
A blended orgasm occurs when you are stimulated internally (vaginally/G-spot) and externally (clitorally) at the same time. The resulting climax is often described as deeper and more full-body than a clitoral-only orgasm.