You probably wouldn't dream of reusing a dirty towel or wearing the same underwear for days. Your sex toys deserve the same respect. Sex is your time to unwind, and if you want toys to be a part of that (and you want those toys to last), you need to know how to clean sex toys correctly and store them properly. Sex toy maintenance may not be the most exciting topic, but it is essential — your body will thank you for it.
Why cleaning your sex toys is a non-negotiable
Cleaning your toys isn't just about getting rid of lube residue; it's a critical health practice. Your vagina and anus are home to a myriad of bacteria. When you use a toy, those germs get transferred to its surface. If you have an infection (like a yeast infection or STI), the microorganisms can live on the toy and can be passed to a partner or even reinfect you later. Bacteria from anal play can also cause a UTI if transferred to the urethra. While this won't happen every time, it's a real risk, and proper cleaning is the simple solution.
How to clean sex toys: a step-by-step guide
Cleaning your toys correctly is just as important as cleaning them regularly. Follow these simple steps before and after every use to keep your collection hygienic and in perfect condition.
Step 1: Choose your cleaning solution
The best and safest option is a dedicated sex toy cleaner. It's specifically formulated to kill germs without degrading sensitive toy materials. In a pinch, a gentle, unscented antibacterial soap and warm water will also work for most toys. Avoid harsh chemicals or anything with a heavy fragrance.
Step 2: Wash based on your toy’s material and water resistance
How you wash your toy depends on what it's made of. Always check the product description if you're unsure.
- For Silicone, Metal, or Borosilicate Glass: These materials are non-porous and the easiest to clean. If the toy is waterproof, you can wash it directly under warm running water with toy cleaner or soap. If it doesn't have a motor, you can even boil it for 3-4 minutes to fully sterilize it.
- For ABS Plastic: If the toy is waterproof, you can wash it with soap and water. If it is not waterproof or only splashproof, wipe it down carefully with a damp, soapy cloth, making sure not to get water into any seams or charging ports.
- For Latex or Elastomer: These materials are more sensitive to heat. Use a warm, moist, soapy cloth to wipe them down, then rinse with another damp cloth. Do not use hot water, as it can cause the material to warp.
Step 3: Let it air dry completely
After washing, let your toys air dry completely on a clean towel before you put them away. Storing a toy while it's still damp can encourage bacteria to grow.
More essential toy care tips for a longer lifespan
Cleaning is just one part of proper maintenance. To keep your toys in great condition, follow these two crucial rules.
Proper toy storage
Where you keep your toys is critical. Tossing them in a nightstand drawer exposes them to dust and lint. It's best to keep your toys in separate, breathable satin or cotton bags. Storing them in the original packaging also works, but make sure the toy is completely clean and dry first, as bacteria can hide in cardboard and some plastics.
Using the right lube
Using the wrong lubricant can ruin your toy. The number one rule: silicone toys and silicone lubricants DO NOT mix. The lube will react with the toy, making it sticky and permanently damaging the material. As a general rule, water-based lubricants are your safest bet and are compatible with almost all toy materials.
Making a habit of cleaning and caring for your sex toys ensures they're always hygienic, safe, and ready for action. It's a simple routine that protects your health and your pleasure investment, making sure your favorite toys can bring you joy for a long time to come.