You probably wouldn't dream of reusing a dirty towel or wearing the same underwear for days. Your sex toys deserve the same respect. Sex is your time to unwind, and if you want toys to be a part of that (and you want those toys to last), you need to know how to clean sex toys correctly and store them properly.
Toy maintenance may not be the most exciting topic, but it is essential — your body will thank you for it. Here is your ultimate guide on how to clean a sex toy so it stays fresh, safe, and ready for action.
Why cleaning your sex toys is a non-negotiable
Cleaning your toys isn't just about getting rid of lube residue; it's a critical health practice. Your vagina and anus are home to a myriad of bacteria. When you use a toy, those germs get transferred to its surface.
If you have an infection (like a yeast infection or STI), the microorganisms can live on the toy and can be passed to a partner or even reinfect you later. Bacteria from anal play can also cause a UTI if transferred to the urethra. While this won't happen every time, it's a real risk, and proper cleaning is the simple solution.
How to clean sex toys: a step-by-step guide
Cleaning your toys correctly is just as important as cleaning them regularly. Follow these simple steps before and after every use to keep your collection hygienic and in perfect condition.
Step 1: Choose your cleaning solution
The best and safest option is a dedicated toy cleaner. It's specifically formulated to kill germs without degrading sensitive toy materials. In a pinch, a gentle, unscented antibacterial soap and warm water will also work for most toys. Avoid harsh chemicals or anything with a heavy fragrance.
Step 2: Wash based on your toy’s material
Knowing how to clean silicone sex toys versus plastic ones is crucial, as the methods differ. Always check the product description if you're unsure.
- For silicone, metal, or borosilicate Glass: These materials are non-porous and the easiest to clean. If the toy is waterproof, you can wash it directly under warm running water with toy cleaner or soap. If it doesn't have a motor, you can even boil it for 3-4 minutes to fully sterilize it.
- For ABS plastic: If the toy is waterproof, you can wash it with soap and water. If it is not waterproof or only splashproof, wipe it down carefully with a damp, soapy cloth, making sure not to get water into any seams or charging ports.
- For latex or elastomer: These materials are porous and more sensitive to heat. Use a warm, moist, soapy cloth to wipe them down, then rinse with another damp cloth. Do not use hot water, as it can cause the material to warp.
Step 3: Let it air dry completely
After washing, let your toys air dry completely on a clean towel before you put them away. Storing a toy while it's still damp can encourage bacteria to grow.
Special scenarios: Deep cleaning and sterilization
Sometimes a quick wash isn't enough. Here is how to handle the trickier situations.
How to clean anal sex toys
Because the anus contains more bacteria than the vagina, knowing how to clean anal sex toys is vital. Ideally, use non-porous materials like silicone, glass, or steel for anal play, as they can be sterilized. Always wash these toys immediately after use with hot water and plenty of antibacterial soap or a strong toy cleaner to prevent any bacterial transfer.
How to clean sex toys after yeast infection
If you've had a scare, you might be wondering how to clean sex toys after a yeast infection. Don't throw them away just yet! If your toy is made of 100% silicone, glass, or stainless steel (and has no motor), boil it in water for 3 to 5 minutes to kill the fungus. If the toy is vibrating or made of porous material (like jelly or elastomer), it is much harder to sterilize completely; in these cases, it is often safer to replace the toy to avoid reinfection.
More essential toy care tips
Proper toy storage
Where you keep your toys is critical. Tossing them in a nightstand drawer exposes them to dust and lint. It's best to keep your toys in separate, breathable satin or cotton bags. Storing them in the original packaging also works, but make sure the toy is completely clean and dry first.
Using the right lube
Using the wrong lubricant can ruin your toy. The number one rule: silicone toys and silicone lubricants DO NOT mix. The lube will react with the toy, making it sticky and permanently damaging the material. As a general rule, water-based lubricants are your safest bet and are compatible with almost all toy materials.
FAQ: Sex toy maintenance
Can I use dish soap to clean sex toys? +
Technically, yes, mild dish soap can remove bacteria. However, it can be harsh on sensitive skin if not rinsed perfectly. A purpose-made toy cleaner is always the safer, gentler option for both your body and the toy.
How often should I clean my sex toys? +
You should clean them before and after every use. Cleaning before use removes any dust from storage, and cleaning after removes fluids and bacteria.
Are sex toys dishwasher safe? +
Generally, no. The extreme heat and harsh detergents in a dishwasher can degrade the material of most toys. Only put a toy in the dishwasher if the manufacturer explicitly states it is safe (usually only valid for solid glass or steel toys).