It goes without saying that sex is amazing any way you slice it, but every so often, even the sexiest among us could benefit from doing things differently or trying something new. This is the case whether we’re married, committed, dating around, or even just taking a little time to ourselves right now. Plus, there’s no time like springtime to explore some new possibilities and venture outside of our comfort zones. The following are just a few suggestions to consider for a sex-centric spring reboot of your own.
1. Treat Yourself to a New Sex Toy
You don’t need to be single to appreciate everything a really amazing sex toy brings to the table. Vibrators, probes, dildos, and more aren’t just great ways to get to know your own body better. They’re also incredible ways to take sex with a partner to the next level. That said, whether you’re in the market for your first sex toy or your fiftieth, a spring reboot is a perfect reason to go shopping for something new, innovative, or intriguing. If you’re already sex toy-experienced, now might be a great time to officially start a goodie drawer or a pleasure chest stocked with fresh options for any mood or occasion.
2. Masturbate With a Partner
Masturbation isn’t just a great way to treat yourself to an orgasm or relieve a little tension when you’re going it alone. Doing it in the presence of a consenting spouse, partner, or lover is seriously hot. It’s also a great teaching experience for both of you. You each get to see exactly how the other person likes to be touched and pleasured, which is information that will obviously come in handy. You can do it together simultaneously or to each other. You can take turns treating each other to a spicy little show. The sky’s the limit so don’t be afraid to get creative.
3. Get Serious About Lube
Don’t make the mistake of thinking lube is simply something to keep around “just in case”. It’s honestly one of the best, most accessible ways to take just about any sexual experience to the next level. Logging some solo time with your favorite rabbit vibrator? Add some toy-safe lube and prepare to be amazed. Getting down and dirty with your partner or treating them to a quick hand job? Lubing things up is a great way to amplify the pleasurable sensations for everyone involved. You can experiment with lubes that cool, warm, smell amazing, or taste phenomenal as well.
4. Try a Totally New Position
Springtime is the perfect time to see what partnered sex looks like and feels like from the other side of the equation. What that means is completely up to you and your partner to decide. If you’re normally the one on the bottom, flip the script and get on top. If you tend to let your partner make all the power moves during a given love session, try being the more dominant one for a change. Normally into having sex in the dark right before bed? Try starting your day with a bang by having morning sex or leave the lights on for a refreshing change of pace and some seriously sexy visuals. Buy a copy of the Kama Sutra and take turns picking out wild new positions to try. You get the picture.
5. Kick Things Up a Notch in the Oral Department
When was the last time you really let go and enjoyed the experience of giving someone else some seriously amazing head? We’re not talking about your average run of the mill oral sex session either. We mean the kind of oral sex that rocks worlds and curls toes. If it’s been a while, you might want to consider putting that back on the menu this spring. Pick a time when you’ve both got a while to really enjoy yourselves. Light some candles, put on some music, and take your sweet time taking your partner for a ride to remember. Feel free to add a little extra oomph with some scented lube or a sex toy if you like.
6. Let the Sexiest Version of Yourself Come Out to Play
Sexy is definitely a state of mind, and it starts with the basics of how we allow ourselves to feel on an everyday basis. Get in touch with the sexier side of you and look for ways to make it a part of how you live your life. Do your hair and makeup for no other reason than wanting to and liking how great it makes you feel about yourself. Put on an outfit that really hugs your curves and take some sexy selfies. Sext your partner or friend-with-benefits out of the blue during the day. Then roll with whatever happens next! You’re sure to be glad you did.